For the last 6 years I have taken a lot of time to regenerate and renew myself from the crazy lifestyle I led when I was in Los Angeles. It was always parties, events, gallery shows, shoots, and I never felt like I had a lot of time to focus on myself and it sort of wore me down.
Then I came to Michigan, and decided to put more focus into my pro domme career again and took the time to really appreciate and enjoy all of the experience I had acquired through my travels and adventures and wanted to savor my dungeon and the fun times within it.
Having my own space I could explore my own sadistic and sensual desires deeper with every client and continually expand my own lifelong education as a Mistress. I’m having the time of my life, but one thing i started to notice is that time was passing. It had been years since I made the effort to see old friends because I was enjoying being surrounded by solitude, peace, and quiet. I was busy finding myself.
I went to London last October for the first time in 7 years and it was as if I had never left. My friends were wonderful to me and genuinely missed me so I made the decision that this would be the year that I would take advantage of my free lifestyle and all it has bestowed upon me to travel more often. To travel to those cities where I have close friends as well as clients I haven’t seen in ages, and not let so much time go by between visits.
A very dear friend of mine in Los Angeles died earlier this year only a week before I was planning to visit him. It made me stop and think. We only get one shot!
NYC, Los Angeles, and London will be the cities I visit most followed by Phoenix, Tampa, Atlanta, Minneapolis, Las Vegas and Houston. I have friends that have remained close to my heart scattered all over the place and thanks to social networks like facebook I am able to keep in touch with them frequently, but it only makes me miss them more!
I will return to Michigan in between trips and continue to enjoy the wonderful things I have built here, of course, so I’ll still be available and nothing will change as far as my business and life here. I just may be gone a week of every month so you’ll have to see me when I’m home.
Those who know me, know how much I love my dungeon and my home so I have no desire to leave here. I do get lonely for my friends though, my really GOOD friends that have stuck by me for years and years through highs and lows. The ones who know me and understand true loyalty. The kinds of friends who would die for me and that I too would die for. I’m lucky to have those kinds of people in my life, and if I never made another friend I’d have enough to sustain me until death.
If you have people like that in your life I suggest you go give them a call right now and tell them how much you love them! Sorry if I’m being mushy, but life is about love and laughter. Make the most of it.
